20 05, 2013

Help When it Helps, Don’t When it Doesn’t

By | May 20th, 2013|Categories: Parenting|Tags: , , , |0 Comments

There was a wonderful article in the NY Times last week that described when it is helpful to help your children (and others) and when it actually hurts their development.

1 04, 2013

Kids Bored? Give Them an iPad?

By | April 1st, 2013|Categories: Parenting|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

A really important NY Times article about the influence of excessive technology use on children, in this case, using iPhones and iPads to placate kids when they get bored or cranky. If you want to read my take on it, read my post about what I call iPhone Syndrome.

18 03, 2013

Parenting: What is Technology Doing to Your Children’s Friendships?

By | March 18th, 2013|Categories: Parenting|Tags: , , , , , , , , |0 Comments

As your children develop and enter the social world outside of your home, their peers’ importance to them will grow. In fact, as your children progress through high school, their peer group will exert a sometimes dismayingly great influence over them as you feel your own relationship with them diminish. Basically, being accepted and liked [...]

31 01, 2013

Alpine Ski Racing is One Brutal Sport

By | January 31st, 2013|Categories: Ski Racing|Tags: , , , , , |14 Comments

I was recently asked to write a chapter on the benefits and costs of sports participation among youth for a new parenting book. It got me thinking about all of the different sports that I have competed in over the years including ski racing, of course, tennis, karate, running, cycling, swimming, and triathlon. I’ve also [...]

2 01, 2013

Teach Your Children to Single Task, not Multitask

By | January 2nd, 2013|Categories: Parenting|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |0 Comments

After reading my last post, I hope you’re convinced now that so-called multitasking isn’t what it purports to be and definitely doesn’t do your children any favors in school or anywhere else. So, the next thing to do is to show them (and perhaps yourself) that “single tasking” is a much better way to go. Single tasking is definitely not rocket science, but it may require that your children break some deeply ingrained habits around their use of technology and learn new habits that will enable them to be more productive and efficient. The good news is that, with some commitment and discipline, your children can retrain those habits and, in a relatively short time and with the benefits clear, become comfortable and adept single taskers. Given that single tasking may involve some pretty big changes in your children’s use of technology, I would encourage you to collaborate with them so they have buy into whatever changes you want to implement. The reality is that if they don’t see the value in changing the way they focus, they will resist any efforts you make with them and those efforts will be doomed to fail. Educate your children about what multitasking really is and why it doesn’t work well, especially in their studies. Then, introduce them to single tasking and show them how it can help them in so many ways.

10 09, 2012

Parenting: Children’s Immersion in Technology is “Shocking”

By | September 10th, 2012|Categories: Parenting|Tags: , , , , , , , |0 Comments

What do smoke signals, drums, books, the telegraph, telephone, fax, mobile phones, and the Internet have in common? They have incrementally enabled us to connect with more people and access more information in more rapid, easy, and less costly ways. Each advancement changed our lives in ways manifest and subtle, direct and indirect, predictable and [...]

5 06, 2012

YouTube Channel: Positive Pushing: How to Raise a Successful and Happy Child

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I just uploaded a 60-minute talk to my YouTube channel on Positive Pushing: How to Raise a Successful and Happy Child that I gave recently at the Stevenson School in Carmel CA. To learn more, visit my Prime Family and Speaking Topics web pages.